Deng!

I have no idea life can bring so much out of you as well as in you. I dont even know if I quite understand myself. Let us just say if you have been through a bad relationship where your partner cheated on you for more than a year, would you go back with her/him? Is it really love that is why we discard our own pain just to have the person back in our life? Maybe we just dont want to accept the change of being alone again that is why we deal with the hurt instead. I can not speak for those people who cheated but for those people who got cheated on then I can say a lot of stuff. Getting out of our comfort zone is really scary at times, but to fool ourselves in thinking that this person still loves me despite the fact that he/she already have another is just plain suicide. At the same time you are destroying more of the relationship than what can be left as a good memory. I know that they say you have to fight for the one you love yet they left the most important part of that saying. It should go like this - "Fight for the one you love for the right reasons." How do you say you love the person if you trap them within your barriers of so called love to satisfy your own fear of being single? That is just selfish and might I say really risky if you still want to remain friends in the end. I have my fair share of pain and selfishness but I should have known better to let things go the way it is suppose to be. We fear the things we do not know and try to hang on to things that are familiar but yet we forget that people change, things change and the world will still go on with or without our consent. Is it really fair for us to hold on to people who does not really share the same emotions?